Adult conversations.

I don’t understand why everybody is so much afraid of adult conversations.

You don’t like me? Tell me why. I want to better myself..

You don’t want to talk to me? At least don’t ignore me. Tell me the reason.

You are mad at me? Express your feelings.

Am I wrong somewhere? Let me know. Let me correct myself.

We don’t agree? Let’s talk it out. Let’s share our feelings.

It’s not that difficult to have such conversations. I believe. We should try no matter how hard things get. Share your viewpoints people.

P. S. Miscommunication is the greatest distance between two people. It is started by EGO and some of the best relationships get broken because of this.


Someone to listen.

While talking to a close one the other day I realized so many things were going wrong in his life. He was struggling each day to make a balance between his family and career. He was unable to spend proper time with his loved ones. So many things were frustrating him and all he wanted was Someone to listen to him. Someone to talk to without fear of being judged, someone to say some kindly words, someone to motivate him when he saw his efforts doom.

And I wondered that today there are so many people out there who just want someone to listen to them, someone to tell them its not a big deal, to say that its going to be okay. Aren’t we human beings many time choking with emotions ? Our almost solitary lifestyles (despite the many social media friends) leaves us short of company at the time of crisis. And then there is the fear of being judged or harming our carefully photo shopped picturesque lifestyle that we want to present to everyone.
I know these fears exist because sometimes I myself am doubtful – whether to share or not. In the end, I have realised that it is much better to open my heart, to involve some people in my ups & downs and give help to others just as readily.

P. S. Do share who are the people in your life who are always willing to listen to you?

Express your love.

It’s easy to take your feelings for granted and to assume that people we care about know how we feel about them. But those we love are quite cognizant of our feelings.

Saying ‘I love you‘ is a gift we should often give our loved ones. Letting people know you love them is an important part of nurturing relationships. Few people tire of hearing such emotions and it can bring a great difference to someone’s life and take your relationship to the next level with that person.

People who find it difficult to express their love verbally should not be afraid of expressing their feelings quite often. It is really important at times to share your feelings with your loved ones and to make them know where they stand in your life and how you feel about them.

P.s. This valentine’s day, don’t assume, just express your feelings to your loved ones and make them feel special.

You are awareness of your thoughts. 

You’re talking to yourself everyday even when you are reading to what i think, you’re having a conversation in your mind. Your perception is everything.  Your universe started in your mother’s body, now it continues in your brain. 

Remember this, you are not yout thoughts,  You are awareness of your thoughts.  How you react to what you think determines your future. You can’t live a positive life having negative reaction to your thoughts. 

What others think of you is their problem or blessing not yours. You need not be concerned about how people perceive you. It says more about them then you. 

You are your best friend or your worst enemy. If you’re telling yourself you’re bad, you are ugly or you can’t do the specific work. Your mind will reinforce this within your body at a cellular level. 

When you tell yourself you can’t you destroy your confidence.  Just tell yourself, I can do it, I will do it, and fight the monster in your life. Learn to love yourself first. Learn to be your best friend and protect your energy to fight your demon.  

You can do it, you will do it.  You are special. You are loved. You are worth it all. Just believe in yourself. I do, your friends do, your family and your loved ones just want to see you happy and succeed. 

P. S. Thankyou for 600 followers. 💜

What makes you happy? 

 Have you ever asked yourself this question? 

For days, I was demotivated, confused, in a state of depression.  I would stay isolated, I talked very less and my daily activities were also decreasing as lethargy was seeping in. Something was always bothering me. 

One day, I decided to talk about it to a stranger as I had the feeling of being judged by my known ones. After listening to my story he asked me 1 single question “What makes you happy?”  I was clueless about the same at that moment. He told me to jot down 1 thing that made me happy every day. 

Initially it was difficult for me, but I realized a few things which did make me happy: Doodling, visiting new places, meeting new people, getting to eat sweets and My NGO work are a few that topped the list. 

After realizing this, I started to spend some time of the day doing these things and my state of mind improved. I am now at peace with myself. 

P.s. How often do you ponder about this question? What is it that gives you immense happiness people? I would love to know in the comments below. 🙂 

The magic of LOVE. 

Ever faced rejection while asking your parents for something? Happens? So what do you do? You still don’t give up right? You beg, you plead, you through all your emotional tantrums would  try to get the thing or work done. 

Love mostly comes to us somewhat like that. Where we want it on any condition.  ‘Do or die:but get it.’ it’s our situation. 

We do every possible thing to get love only to realise we are wrong.  Because if it is meant to happen, it will and so on the other way around if it’s not meant to be it won’t happen. 

And in this process,  we slowly loose the little kid inside us. We become afraid. Shattered, lost and mutilated  we promise ourselves that we’ll never fall into this trap again. 

Little that we know it will all  come back, but in a beautiful and larger than life state.

Never let someone demean you, treat you bad or even hurt you a little, because if these things persist. It’s surely not love. 

Cause love is something that leads you to happiness and growth. It is something that makes you feel  beautiful about yourself and of how lucky you are..

Believe in the magic of love.  ❤️

P. S. Hello my blogger family, let’s start this new year with a fresh feeling and let’s love more.  Do tell me what are your plans for this year? And what you think of love? 

The world she wanted to live..

To all the men out there who try to tell a women who or what to be..

Sometimes she needs your attention, Sometimes she doesn’t get along with her family, Sometimes she needs to hit a boxing bag, Sometimes she need to cuddle all day long, Sometimes she needs to wear makeup, Sometimes she is bored with her current hair style, Sometimes she needs to care about the book she is reading, Sometimes she wants to eat that particular meal because it has the correct minerals in it, Sometimes she wants you to cook for her, Sometimes she wants to be a freedom fighter, Sometimes she wants to debate politics with you, Sometimes she will express herself with the poetry she has written, Sometimes she needs to learn from you, Other times she wants to teach you, Sometimes she wants to buy you something, Sometimes she wants you to show her commitment, Sometimes she isn’t bothered about dressing up, Sometimes she wants to be a free spirit….

Everyday she needs your love. Everyday she needs your care. Everyday she deserves to be respected. Everyday she faces problems created by men we call ‘sexism’. Everyday she is a human. She doesn’t need to be stereotyped, to be put in boxes or categories created by men to destroy her self esteem. 

She needs to define herself on her own terms. She needs you to listen to her, to what she wants and what she needs. 

Everyday she needs to feel special and appreciated. 🙂 

P. S. To all the girls, tell me how your world is like in your imaginations which you want in reality. And all the men, do share your views.. Will be waiting.