Build with her.

She’s putting in as much work as you do. Subtly reminding you to take care of yourself. How was your day? Get some sleep. You should eat better. Do you need help? I believe in you. Stay safe. 

When she’s constantly putting all the effort to build the relationship. When she runs her own life and recommends you to all her contacts. When she doesn’t let your insecurities grow but reminds you that they are only build in your mind. When she wants you to stop smoking and drinking as she wants you to have an old age for your children. When she teaches you cooking if you don’t know how to. When she wants you to build your future.

She wants to grow with you. She wants to be your best friend. She wants to love you irrespective of how messed up your past was but wants to fight all the problems in future together. She loves you despite of the bank balance in your account but because of the goodness in your nature and the beauty of your smile.  

Build with her. 

p.s. I could not write for so long due to some reasons. Please share the link of your posts and also give me some suggestions as to what topics I should come up with. 

What are you waiting for?

What are you waiting for? Another Day? Another week? Another year? Are you wating for another chance? 

I recently realised something when having a conversation with my sister. I had a bad fight with a friend. We both never spoke to each other no matter how badly we wanted to. But the other day I had an accident she came up to me to ask for my well being. What were we waiting for? I asked myself. Some mishappening? Some special occasion to take a step to change our lives and get what we want? Why don’t we start with today?

Why don’t we start working for the project dated later on instead of procrastinating? Why don’t we take a step forward to fix those broken relationships? Why don’t we take some actions to meet our desired goals? We want to change our lives. We want things to get better. But we don’t want to take an action. Why? What are you waiting for? ?

Trust.

“How do you trust people so easily?” She asked me. “Because if we don’t trust people our life will be full of insecurities.” I replied.

Trust.! How do you decide who you should trust and who you shouldn’t ? Is there some reasoning behind it? Or our heart gives us the consent and we start to trust some people in our life. It makes our living so much easier for us.

Did you ever thought how life would be if you doubted every person you had some contact with? Your milk man? Your house maid? Your accountant? Your boss? Your friends? Your family? Your other acquaintances? You would always doubt them, even if their intentions are not wrong. You will think twice before saying something infront of them. Your insecurites will build up.

You can take some time to trust people, don’t trust instantly if your heart doesn’t give you the consent. Just don’t let the insecurities build up. 

Humans & Humanity 

“We can’t help everyone. But everyone can help someone.”

On my way to college today, I met with an accident. Luckily, me and my friend got saved with no injuries. Our car got hit by a truck and we were very scared and started shivering. But to our good luck, there was a person who calmed us, stayed with us for almost an hour till our parents came and also helped us alot by giving us the confidence that we need not be afraid as we were not wrong and should call the police for help.

And in this time, somebody stopped and helped us despite of his engagements when most of the passer by were just giving us suspicious looks and not willing to stop or lend a helping out of humanity. It was surprising and so kind hearted of him to help us.

A question came in mind, how often do we help the needy? What are you doing for others? What did you today? When was the last time? 

Share your views people and don’t forget to thank such kind people who help you when you are in need. Or help the people who need you. 

There is hope always.:)

Get up, and try your best, that’s all you can do… Just because it’s difficult doesn’t mean it’s not possible.
Just because people say it can’t be done, doesn’t mean you can’t do it. 

Just because your relationship isn’t great right now, doesn’t mean you can’t work and make it better.

 Just because your grandfather is sick right now, doesn’t mean he won’t get better. 

Just because you are alone right now, doesn’t mean you won’t make new friends and meet new people.

Just because you are having a tough time right now, doesn’t mean you won’t have a good future ahead.

Just because you  didn’t do your best, doesn’t mean you can’t try harder and make things work for yourself and improve.

Just because you made a mistake, doesn’t mean you can’t improve in the future and learn from it.

Just because you are having a bad day, doesn’t mean you have a bad life.

Just think deeply for a moment, you have a house, health, family, friends who love you. You can work on your happiness as you work on other things.

Just because it seems like there is no hope, remember as long there is life, there is hope always. 🙂

Beginning of a new year..

And we are at the beginning of a new year, you must’ve made Many resoulutions for yourself in this or the previous year. Did you keep them? Did you change as you had thought? Life is constantly changing, earth is changing. 

One of the questions you can ask youself is how did you spend the last year? Were you happy or were you depressed? Were you stressed? Or you were relaxed and at peace with your exsistence? Happiness is transient, just like time itself. Living life to the moment is the best way to maintain sanity. The more moments you spend of happiness, the better quality of life you live.. 

So, what are you going to do in this year to keep yourself happy? Here are a few simple things you can try- love unconditionally, stop smoking & drinking alchohol, don’t let someone disrespect you, follow your heart, start excersing, eating nutritious food, get involved in activities where you can make some difference in people’s life. 

Everybody is human so you can change things for the better if you want to. Start by today, cause tommorow isn’t promised. There are so many things you can do to keep yourself and others affect positively because that’s how you find happiness.

p.s. I hope you people get rich in happiness, peace, joy, family, laughter, love, wealth and career in this year and years to come.

Keep giving your suggestions people. And tell me some of the answers to the questions mentioned above. Let’s stay connected. 🙂

 

Worrying about what other people think? 

“Life is a game of 3 parts. In the frst part, you wonder what people think about you. In the second part, you don’t care what people think about you. In the third and final part, you realise people were never thinking about you anyway.”  

Now tell me; how many people do you think of at the end of the day? You think of yourself. Your life. Your dreams. Your family. Your love. You hear the distant train’s signal, and then you are thinking about trains. You think of the new song you heard. The movie you watched.

Do you think about the girl who wore shorts to a family function? Do you think about the love birds romancing in the public place? Do you think about the boy who asked a weird question in the group disussion? 

No. You don’t !! You might have remembered some traces of the events that occured that day. But you would definitely forget about these instances by then end of the week.

This is what happens with other people also. Nobody thinks about other people so much. Nor do they have the time to do so. 

So, you also stop worrying about what other people might think of you or your actions. And start living life on your terms and conditions. The way you want. And be happy. 

Occupy your mind with other valuable thoughts and stop worrying about what other people might think.