Have a good heart.

If you’re kind, if you’re honest, if you’re soft spoken, if you believe in the goodness of people. Don’t change. The world needs more people like you.

Just because somebody hurt you, abused you, broke your trust or did wrong to you in any manner. Doesn’t mean you need to be like that person. His actions define him and your actions will define you. He will get the result of his bad karma. You should never do to him what he did to you. You should do good karma. And you will get fruitful results in life.

You should have a good heart in a world that tells you that coldness is the answer. You should not change. 

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What are you waiting for?

What are you waiting for? Another Day? Another week? Another year? Are you wating for another chance? 

I recently realised something when having a conversation with my sister. I had a bad fight with a friend. We both never spoke to each other no matter how badly we wanted to. But the other day I had an accident she came up to me to ask for my well being. What were we waiting for? I asked myself. Some mishappening? Some special occasion to take a step to change our lives and get what we want? Why don’t we start with today?

Why don’t we start working for the project dated later on instead of procrastinating? Why don’t we take a step forward to fix those broken relationships? Why don’t we take some actions to meet our desired goals? We want to change our lives. We want things to get better. But we don’t want to take an action. Why? What are you waiting for? ?

Worrying about what other people think? 

“Life is a game of 3 parts. In the frst part, you wonder what people think about you. In the second part, you don’t care what people think about you. In the third and final part, you realise people were never thinking about you anyway.”  

Now tell me; how many people do you think of at the end of the day? You think of yourself. Your life. Your dreams. Your family. Your love. You hear the distant train’s signal, and then you are thinking about trains. You think of the new song you heard. The movie you watched.

Do you think about the girl who wore shorts to a family function? Do you think about the love birds romancing in the public place? Do you think about the boy who asked a weird question in the group disussion? 

No. You don’t !! You might have remembered some traces of the events that occured that day. But you would definitely forget about these instances by then end of the week.

This is what happens with other people also. Nobody thinks about other people so much. Nor do they have the time to do so. 

So, you also stop worrying about what other people might think of you or your actions. And start living life on your terms and conditions. The way you want. And be happy. 

Occupy your mind with other valuable thoughts and stop worrying about what other people might think. 

Why me?? 

When she got rejected for an interview,

When she failed an examination,

When nothing would be going the way she wanted..

She asked herself Why me?? When she started losing all her hope, when she didn’t get the desired results she would always ask herself WHY ME?? WHY AGAIN ME??

But in the process, she realised that everything happens for a reason. And instead of asking herself the same repeated question, which many of you might ask yourself when faced with a similar situation. She said Yes me!! didn’t get the desired results so I would work harder in future. Yes me will get the things I desire. Yes something good is in store for me… 

After all it’s all about the way you look at things.

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Think before you speak.

Words, oh words, will break your soul..  I had read this somewhere and found it to be so apt now. People these days speak whatever comes in their mind, use the most abusive, vulgar language they can and don’t think of the effect it can have on the listener.

 People please it’s a humble request Think before you speak. Because your words have the power to break or make someone. Think how you would feel if someone treats you badly. Wont you be guilty of ruining someone’s day by your words.? Would you want someone to be demoralised because of you? Would you want someone already suffering to have an even worse condition?

So please people think before you speak. And spread the magic of your words among people.:)  

 p.s  did you encounter a similar situation like me where people used bad words for you? Also your reaction. Please share. Keep giving your reviews

Kindness paves way to a lot more. :)

Do you remember the time in your school when you helped a child get up who had fallen from a swing? Do you remember the time you helped an old man cross the road? The time you helped someone with heavy grocery bags? Or any such thing?Well you may or may not remember, but the people who you assisted whole heartedly remember it very well.

Someone has quoted “kindness is a language which the deaf can hear and the blind can see.”  It is so true your act of kindness never gets unnoticed by people. An act of kindness gives you lot more than what you think. It gives you self satisfaction, makes you more peaceful, ang gives you a pleasant and satisfactory feeling which cannot be described in words. 

So the next time you see someone ailing, perplexed, depressed or suffering, don’t give it a thought. Just go and help that person with a helping hand and smile 🙂

Word with a smile.

I had gone to market with my mother today for shopping of grocery items when I realised that some jobs are so thankless. We don’t appreciate some people for what they do for us. Isntit?  I thanked the guard uncle for opening the gate for us while moving out and smiled. This made him smile also. 🙂  Just think how many times do we thank such people for their efforts? How many times we appreciate what is done for us by our family ? Very less often or never right?

I believe people should be appreciated. They should be thanked for the tasks they perform for us. If not we can atleast smile and express it through our gesture. Cause good words stay in the mind of people for a long time & have a positive impact on them. And smile is infectious you can catch it like a flu. Someone smiled at me today and I started smiling too 🙂

p.s. Spread smiles people. Leave an impact with your words in lives of others. Be thankful. Learn to appreciate. Acknowledge. 🙂  here goes a doodle sorry I was not able to draw from so long due to my hectic schedule.