It’s easy to take your feelings for granted and to assume that people we care about know how we feel about them. But those we love are quite cognizant of our feelings.
Saying ‘I love you‘ is a gift we should often give our loved ones. Letting people know you love them is an important part of nurturing relationships. Few people tire of hearing such emotions and it can bring a great difference to someone’s life and take your relationship to the next level with that person.
People who find it difficult to express their love verbally should not be afraid of expressing their feelings quite often. It is really important at times to share your feelings with your loved ones and to make them know where they stand in your life and how you feel about them.
P.s. This valentine’s day, don’t assume, just express your feelings to your loved ones and make them feel special.
You’re talking to yourself everyday even when you are reading to what i think, you’re having a conversation in your mind. Your perception is everything. Your universe started in your mother’s body, now it continues in your brain.
Remember this, you are not yout thoughts, You are awareness of your thoughts. How you react to what you think determines your future. You can’t live a positive life having negative reaction to your thoughts.
What others think of you is their problem or blessing not yours. You need not be concerned about how people perceive you. It says more about them then you.
You are your best friend or your worst enemy. If you’re telling yourself you’re bad, you are ugly or you can’t do the specific work. Your mind will reinforce this within your body at a cellular level.
When you tell yourself you can’t you destroy your confidence. Just tell yourself, I can do it, I will do it, and fight the monster in your life. Learn to love yourself first. Learn to be your best friend and protect your energy to fight your demon.
You can do it, you will do it. You are special. You are loved. You are worth it all. Just believe in yourself. I do, your friends do, your family and your loved ones just want to see you happy and succeed.
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Have you ever asked yourself this question?
For days, I was demotivated, confused, in a state of depression. I would stay isolated, I talked very less and my daily activities were also decreasing as lethargy was seeping in. Something was always bothering me.
One day, I decided to talk about it to a stranger as I had the feeling of being judged by my known ones. After listening to my story he asked me 1 single question “What makes you happy?” I was clueless about the same at that moment. He told me to jot down 1 thing that made me happy every day.
Initially it was difficult for me, but I realized a few things which did make me happy: Doodling, visiting new places, meeting new people, getting to eat sweets and My NGO work are a few that topped the list.
After realizing this, I started to spend some time of the day doing these things and my state of mind improved. I am now at peace with myself.
P.s. How often do you ponder about this question? What is it that gives you immense happiness people? I would love to know in the comments below. 🙂
When we make others happy how happy we become, it’s a vicious circle.
If you don’t get happiness and you stop giving it to others. How will you get happiness? It means what you’ve not got, start giving it to others, it will come back to you.
If you are generous and large hearted then nature will be generous with you. Your generosity and kindness never goes waste. It goes on circulating. We should always keep going..
We should rise above the thinking of ‘mine and thine’ and should act without any discrimination.
It takes time to get unaffected by small petty things and to not stoop down to others people’s level and react. But once we achieve it, we start becoming more happy and peaceful.
P.s. Keep spreading happiness people. And do give me your valuable suggestions always. 🙂
If you’re kind, if you’re honest, if you’re soft spoken, if you believe in the goodness of people. Don’t change. The world needs more people like you.
Just because somebody hurt you, abused you, broke your trust or did wrong to you in any manner. Doesn’t mean you need to be like that person. His actions define him and your actions will define you. He will get the result of his bad karma. You should never do to him what he did to you. You should do good karma. And you will get fruitful results in life.
You should have a good heart in a world that tells you that coldness is the answer. You should not change.
What are you waiting for? Another Day? Another week? Another year? Are you wating for another chance?
I recently realised something when having a conversation with my sister. I had a bad fight with a friend. We both never spoke to each other no matter how badly we wanted to. But the other day I had an accident she came up to me to ask for my well being. What were we waiting for? I asked myself. Some mishappening? Some special occasion to take a step to change our lives and get what we want? Why don’t we start with today?
Why don’t we start working for the project dated later on instead of procrastinating? Why don’t we take a step forward to fix those broken relationships? Why don’t we take some actions to meet our desired goals? We want to change our lives. We want things to get better. But we don’t want to take an action. Why? What are you waiting for? ?
“Life is a game of 3 parts. In the frst part, you wonder what people think about you. In the second part, you don’t care what people think about you. In the third and final part, you realise people were never thinking about you anyway.”
Now tell me; how many people do you think of at the end of the day? You think of yourself. Your life. Your dreams. Your family. Your love. You hear the distant train’s signal, and then you are thinking about trains. You think of the new song you heard. The movie you watched.
Do you think about the girl who wore shorts to a family function? Do you think about the love birds romancing in the public place? Do you think about the boy who asked a weird question in the group disussion?
No. You don’t !! You might have remembered some traces of the events that occured that day. But you would definitely forget about these instances by then end of the week.
This is what happens with other people also. Nobody thinks about other people so much. Nor do they have the time to do so.
So, you also stop worrying about what other people might think of you or your actions. And start living life on your terms and conditions. The way you want. And be happy.
Occupy your mind with other valuable thoughts and stop worrying about what other people might think.