Have you ever asked yourself this question?
For days, I was demotivated, confused, in a state of depression. I would stay isolated, I talked very less and my daily activities were also decreasing as lethargy was seeping in. Something was always bothering me.
One day, I decided to talk about it to a stranger as I had the feeling of being judged by my known ones. After listening to my story he asked me 1 single question “What makes you happy?” I was clueless about the same at that moment. He told me to jot down 1 thing that made me happy every day.
Initially it was difficult for me, but I realized a few things which did make me happy: Doodling, visiting new places, meeting new people, getting to eat sweets and My NGO work are a few that topped the list.
After realizing this, I started to spend some time of the day doing these things and my state of mind improved. I am now at peace with myself.
P.s. How often do you ponder about this question? What is it that gives you immense happiness people? I would love to know in the comments below. 🙂
Ever faced rejection while asking your parents for something? Happens? So what do you do? You still don’t give up right? You beg, you plead, you through all your emotional tantrums would try to get the thing or work done.
Love mostly comes to us somewhat like that. Where we want it on any condition. ‘Do or die:but get it.’ it’s our situation.
We do every possible thing to get love only to realise we are wrong. Because if it is meant to happen, it will and so on the other way around if it’s not meant to be it won’t happen.
And in this process, we slowly loose the little kid inside us. We become afraid. Shattered, lost and mutilated we promise ourselves that we’ll never fall into this trap again.
Little that we know it will all come back, but in a beautiful and larger than life state.
Never let someone demean you, treat you bad or even hurt you a little, because if these things persist. It’s surely not love.
Cause love is something that leads you to happiness and growth. It is something that makes you feel beautiful about yourself and of how lucky you are..
Believe in the magic of love. ❤️
P. S. Hello my blogger family, let’s start this new year with a fresh feeling and let’s love more. Do tell me what are your plans for this year? And what you think of love?
To all the men out there who try to tell a women who or what to be..
Sometimes she needs your attention, Sometimes she doesn’t get along with her family, Sometimes she needs to hit a boxing bag, Sometimes she need to cuddle all day long, Sometimes she needs to wear makeup, Sometimes she is bored with her current hair style, Sometimes she needs to care about the book she is reading, Sometimes she wants to eat that particular meal because it has the correct minerals in it, Sometimes she wants you to cook for her, Sometimes she wants to be a freedom fighter, Sometimes she wants to debate politics with you, Sometimes she will express herself with the poetry she has written, Sometimes she needs to learn from you, Other times she wants to teach you, Sometimes she wants to buy you something, Sometimes she wants you to show her commitment, Sometimes she isn’t bothered about dressing up, Sometimes she wants to be a free spirit….
Everyday she needs your love. Everyday she needs your care. Everyday she deserves to be respected. Everyday she faces problems created by men we call ‘sexism’. Everyday she is a human. She doesn’t need to be stereotyped, to be put in boxes or categories created by men to destroy her self esteem.
She needs to define herself on her own terms. She needs you to listen to her, to what she wants and what she needs.
Everyday she needs to feel special and appreciated. 🙂
P. S. To all the girls, tell me how your world is like in your imaginations which you want in reality. And all the men, do share your views.. Will be waiting.
When she got rejected for an interview,
When she failed an examination,
When nothing would be going the way she wanted..
She asked herself Why me?? When she started losing all her hope, when she didn’t get the desired results she would always ask herself WHY ME?? WHY AGAIN ME??
But in the process, she realised that everything happens for a reason. And instead of asking herself the same repeated question, which many of you might ask yourself when faced with a similar situation. She said Yes me!! didn’t get the desired results so I would work harder in future. Yes me will get the things I desire. Yes something good is in store for me…
After all it’s all about the way you look at things.
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It’s been months, something is stuck on my mind. No matter what time of the day it is, or what activity i’m engrossed in. It doesn’t leave me and my brain is thinking it all over, once again. And I found that I started overthinkng about everything. No matter what the situation is I think, rethink, think once again and still i am not sure if the decision I have taken is right or wrong.
Overthinking each and every thing would make me feel demotivated, I started doubting myself, lost hope, i wont get the desired results. Nothing was actually working nicely or the way I wanted and it started having a bad effect on me and my health.
One day, while talking to one of my friends on phone. I was giving her the same advice when she was stuck somewhere ” DON’T THINK TOO MUCH. Your decision is right. Don’t take stress. Trust yourself. Just distract your mind. Have faith. ”
And i realised this is what i was supposed to do myself. I paused, STOP OVERTHINKING BRAIN i said. And smiled.
So to start with, i have had a bad time lately. In the last few months, people’ve accused me of something wrong, used bad words, people made me feel wrong about the way I am or the way i think, the decisions i take, about my beliefs and what not. There were so many negative vibes around me. An aura which made me feel so negative. Like Wait. How would you feel if somebody would make you feel this Way? Your life would be full of all that negative energy, you’d always be sad, lost, not able to concentrate properly, get the desired results, have all the sleepless nights and it would take a toll on your health..
After going through all these situations, I realised something. If I am filled with so much negative enegies, always thinking about the wrong that could happen or being all this sad, lost and lonely how does it bother anybody but me? It would affect my mental health only. So why should I be so negative always rather then focusing on the positive aspect of life.?
So slowly, I learned some ways to become a positive soul~
See the good in everything, stay with people who believe in you and your beliefs and make you feel good about yourself, read good books, listen to nice music that calms you, spend time with nature, write down all the negative things and flush it out, and relax everything will work out, just smile and tell yourself NO NEGATIVE VIBES PLZ! 😉
Today in the morning, my father asked me ‘what are your plans for future?’ And for a second I was speechless. As I am still so confused what field to chose and what I would be best in. Arent we all running in the cat race day & night to secure a good desirable life ahead of us?
Well for me, I have my mind set how I want my future life to be like-1. To have a good job (something that’s also my passion) 2. To have a loving family. 3. To enjoy each day that I’m alive. 4. To make a difference in someone’s life someday. 🙂
Tell me about your dreams and plans for the future people? Something you would want to do? Something different?
p.s. Thankyou everyone for the support for my last post. Hope you like this one as well. Waiting for your reviews 🙂