When she got rejected for an interview,
When she failed an examination,
When nothing would be going the way she wanted..
She asked herself Why me?? When she started losing all her hope, when she didn’t get the desired results she would always ask herself WHY ME?? WHY AGAIN ME??
But in the process, she realised that everything happens for a reason. And instead of asking herself the same repeated question, which many of you might ask yourself when faced with a similar situation. She said Yes me!! didn’t get the desired results so I would work harder in future. Yes me will get the things I desire. Yes something good is in store for me…
After all it’s all about the way you look at things.
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It’s been months, something is stuck on my mind. No matter what time of the day it is, or what activity i’m engrossed in. It doesn’t leave me and my brain is thinking it all over, once again. And I found that I started overthinkng about everything. No matter what the situation is I think, rethink, think once again and still i am not sure if the decision I have taken is right or wrong.
Overthinking each and every thing would make me feel demotivated, I started doubting myself, lost hope, i wont get the desired results. Nothing was actually working nicely or the way I wanted and it started having a bad effect on me and my health.
One day, while talking to one of my friends on phone. I was giving her the same advice when she was stuck somewhere ” DON’T THINK TOO MUCH. Your decision is right. Don’t take stress. Trust yourself. Just distract your mind. Have faith. ”
And i realised this is what i was supposed to do myself. I paused, STOP OVERTHINKING BRAIN i said. And smiled.
So to start with, i have had a bad time lately. In the last few months, people’ve accused me of something wrong, used bad words, people made me feel wrong about the way I am or the way i think, the decisions i take, about my beliefs and what not. There were so many negative vibes around me. An aura which made me feel so negative. Like Wait. How would you feel if somebody would make you feel this Way? Your life would be full of all that negative energy, you’d always be sad, lost, not able to concentrate properly, get the desired results, have all the sleepless nights and it would take a toll on your health..
After going through all these situations, I realised something. If I am filled with so much negative enegies, always thinking about the wrong that could happen or being all this sad, lost and lonely how does it bother anybody but me? It would affect my mental health only. So why should I be so negative always rather then focusing on the positive aspect of life.?
So slowly, I learned some ways to become a positive soul~
See the good in everything, stay with people who believe in you and your beliefs and make you feel good about yourself, read good books, listen to nice music that calms you, spend time with nature, write down all the negative things and flush it out, and relax everything will work out, just smile and tell yourself NO NEGATIVE VIBES PLZ! 😉
Today in the morning, my father asked me ‘what are your plans for future?’ And for a second I was speechless. As I am still so confused what field to chose and what I would be best in. Arent we all running in the cat race day & night to secure a good desirable life ahead of us?
Well for me, I have my mind set how I want my future life to be like-1. To have a good job (something that’s also my passion) 2. To have a loving family. 3. To enjoy each day that I’m alive. 4. To make a difference in someone’s life someday. 🙂
Tell me about your dreams and plans for the future people? Something you would want to do? Something different?
p.s. Thankyou everyone for the support for my last post. Hope you like this one as well. Waiting for your reviews 🙂
Hey..!! Well yes, My first post and I am talking about the so called confusions in my life. To start with, I was apprehensive as to who would be interested in knowing my thoughts and opinions on things. But after some thought I decided to give it a kick start.
To be frank, I seriously dont know what is going on in my life. I want something desperately and I would get the exact opposite thing in return.
I remember a song which fits my life accurately at this point
Bas confusion hi confusion hai. Solution kuch pata nai.. Soultion jo mila toh question ka pata nai (unknown)
p.s. I love doodling. I like to express myself with them. So a doodle with a regular post is a promise 🙂
till then goodbye. Do give your reviews.