Have a good heart.

If you’re kind, if you’re honest, if you’re soft spoken, if you believe in the goodness of people. Don’t change. The world needs more people like you.

Just because somebody hurt you, abused you, broke your trust or did wrong to you in any manner. Doesn’t mean you need to be like that person. His actions define him and your actions will define you. He will get the result of his bad karma. You should never do to him what he did to you. You should do good karma. And you will get fruitful results in life.

You should have a good heart in a world that tells you that coldness is the answer. You should not change. 

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There is hope always.:)

Get up, and try your best, that’s all you can do… Just because it’s difficult doesn’t mean it’s not possible.
Just because people say it can’t be done, doesn’t mean you can’t do it. 

Just because your relationship isn’t great right now, doesn’t mean you can’t work and make it better.

 Just because your grandfather is sick right now, doesn’t mean he won’t get better. 

Just because you are alone right now, doesn’t mean you won’t make new friends and meet new people.

Just because you are having a tough time right now, doesn’t mean you won’t have a good future ahead.

Just because you  didn’t do your best, doesn’t mean you can’t try harder and make things work for yourself and improve.

Just because you made a mistake, doesn’t mean you can’t improve in the future and learn from it.

Just because you are having a bad day, doesn’t mean you have a bad life.

Just think deeply for a moment, you have a house, health, family, friends who love you. You can work on your happiness as you work on other things.

Just because it seems like there is no hope, remember as long there is life, there is hope always. 🙂

Stop overthinking brain.!!

It’s been months, something is stuck on my mind. No matter what time of the day it is, or what activity i’m engrossed in. It doesn’t leave me and my brain is thinking it all over, once again. And I found that I started overthinkng about everything. No matter what the situation is I think, rethink, think once again and still i am not sure if the decision I have taken is right or wrong.

Overthinking each and every thing would make me feel demotivated, I started doubting myself, lost hope, i wont get the desired results. Nothing was actually working nicely or the way I wanted and it started having a bad effect on me and my health.

One day, while talking to one of my friends on phone. I was giving her the same advice when she was stuck somewhere ” DON’T THINK TOO MUCH. Your decision is right. Don’t take stress. Trust yourself. Just distract your mind. Have faith.  ” 

And i realised this is what i was supposed to do myself. I paused, STOP OVERTHINKING BRAIN i said. And smiled. 

No negative vibes PLZ.! 

So to start with, i have had a bad time lately. In the last few months, people’ve accused me of something wrong, used bad words, people made me feel wrong about the way I am or the way i think, the decisions i take, about my beliefs and what not. There were so many negative vibes around me. An aura which made me feel so negative. Like Wait. How would you feel if somebody would make you feel this Way? Your life would be full of all that negative energy, you’d always be sad, lost, not able to concentrate properly, get the desired results, have all the sleepless nights and it would take a toll on your health..

After going through all these situations, I realised something. If I am filled with so much negative enegies, always thinking about the wrong that could happen or being all this sad, lost and lonely how does it bother anybody but me? It would affect my mental health only. So why should I be so negative always rather then focusing on the positive aspect of life.?

So slowly, I learned some ways to become a positive soul~

See the good in everything, stay with people who believe in you and your beliefs and make you feel good about yourself, read good books, listen to nice music that calms you, spend time with nature, write down  all the negative things and flush it out, and relax everything will work out,  just smile and tell yourself NO NEGATIVE VIBES PLZ! 😉 

Count your blessings. :)

I saw a bad dream this afternoon of loosing my vision forever. And it seemed so real to me, I started shivering and the minute I opened my eyes, and came back to my senses, I thanked God for all he has blessed me with.

And I wondered truly we people are so blessed, we should be thankful to God for all that we have. Yet we always want more, and have a carping spirit. 

People we should count our blessing and name them one by one 🙂 And make a promise to ourselves No matter how hard life becomes, we would go to bed greatful for all that we have. 

Your life is right now.

Your life is right now ! It’s not later. It’s not in at the time of retirement. Its not when your lover comes here. It’s not when you find the perfect job. It’s not when you secure good grades. It’s not when you move into your dream house. It’s not later. It’s right now.The way you are responding to your life right now decides what’s to come in future for you. 

p.s. Keep telling these few words to yourself people. And trust me in life everything will be alright 🙂