Things to make your friendship last longer. 

Losing friends is an imperative part of growing up. It’s strange how the people we grew up with, ones who’ve been on our side during our best, suddenly become strangers. Not all friendships are meant to last forever, but some friends are for lifetime. Keep them close. Here arw some things you can do to keep you friendship last longer. 

  • Support them. They maybe taking some big decisions of their life, like you and your support could mean the world to them.
  • Don’t judge. Yes, you cannot agree with all the things they say or all the decisions they make. But don’t be judgemental. That’s the last thing they would want from you.
  • Spend time. Take out some time for your friend. Everyone is busy, but it is important to meet frequently and stay in touch and know what’s going on in each other’s lives. 
  • Don’t let misunderstandings build up. It would weaken the great bond that you have with your friend. You may not like confrontation always. But don’t let things pile up. If you have something in your mind, just talk it out and clear it. 
  • Be with them. In your good days and on bad days when nothing is going right with them or you. Face all the hurdles together. Be a support system for each other.
  • Don’t burden them with your personal problems. Yes, you may be having a bad time. But you should not always discuss it with them in each and every conversation that you have. Cause they might already be having their share of problems to deal with. 
  • Accept that friendship changes with time. As everything in life changes as we grow up or with the passage of time. So does our friendship. Our friend will not always be present for us. Sometimes we have to trust our friendships and be okay with them not giving us adequate time and accept their reasons for doing so.  

    Friends are the most important part of our lives. We should try to make our friendship last longer. As friends are the greatest blessings of all.

    How to build a healthy relationship.

    After hearing a lot lately about breakups, divorces, unhealthy fights and bitter arguments between couples. I thought of writing some of my own drawn conclusions on how to keep your relationship healthy with your partner.

    1. Spend alot of time. When you are in a relationship, it becomes very important to spend alot of time together. No matter how busy your schedule is and irrespective of the other aspects you should take out some time for your partner in a  day. If possible visit places, travel together.

    2. Build understanding. It is important. You should talk to your partner about various matters in your life. You both should try to sit back, and understand each other’s perspective and if there comes a difference of opinion you should peacefully try to resolve it.

    3. Confession of feelings. Some may disagree, but I beleive no matter which relation we talk of to keep it alive, we should make little gestures for the person once in a while, and confess our feelings.

    4.  Give space. In every relation we need our space. Right? We don’t want someone to be questioning us about each and everything. We want our space also. To do certain things the way we like. So why not when we are in a relation?  Think about it!!

    5. Be happy and secure. If you yourself are not happy and secure, how do you expect to keep your partner happy in a relation? So, try to keep yourself happy.

    6. Adjustment. Something, which is required at every phase of our lives. We need to learn to make certain adjustments when we are in a relation to keep it going smoothly. Cause, if we don’t agree to adjust in certain situations our relation is bound to get weak with time.

    7. Trust. You should trust your partner’s decisions, and actions taken for himself and for you as well. Trust is very important in a relationship, once it’s lost. It becomes difficult for a relationship to survive.

    There are many things which build a strong relation. Some i mentioned, some you people might have learnt with your own personal experience.

    Something we people of this generation have completely forgotten..

    Whenver a problem arises in a relation, we should not break the relation and leave our partner. Instead, we should try to solve the problem and make the relationship even more stronger.