Don’t kill yourself trying not to feel..

Now we are so scared of feelings, we make fun of having feelings. I think sometimes we’re ridiculous but what is the point of life without feelings?

You opened your heart to them and they broke it, you were hurt for a very long time but now have trouble trusting people. I believe that it’s okay to rebuild we have to break what we already are.. We have to make sure that we protect our energy.

But don’t stop feeling because your last relationship made you loose your trust in humanity. Don’t blame your ex, ask yourself at that time you didn’t trust your intuition and it was exactly what you wanted. But don’t forget your worth and that you deserve to be loved.

And you need to love, have feelings for people. Because love is life itself. Don’t fool yourself by saying you don’t have feelings for a person just because you’re too scared you might hurt yourself again.

Stop it.!! Love is life itself.

Don’t kill yourself trying not to feel because of your ego..

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Adult conversations.

I don’t understand why everybody is so much afraid of adult conversations.

You don’t like me? Tell me why. I want to better myself..

You don’t want to talk to me? At least don’t ignore me. Tell me the reason.

You are mad at me? Express your feelings.

Am I wrong somewhere? Let me know. Let me correct myself.

We don’t agree? Let’s talk it out. Let’s share our feelings.

It’s not that difficult to have such conversations. I believe. We should try no matter how hard things get. Share your viewpoints people.

P. S. Miscommunication is the greatest distance between two people. It is started by EGO and some of the best relationships get broken because of this.

Someone to listen.

While talking to a close one the other day I realized so many things were going wrong in his life. He was struggling each day to make a balance between his family and career. He was unable to spend proper time with his loved ones. So many things were frustrating him and all he wanted was Someone to listen to him. Someone to talk to without fear of being judged, someone to say some kindly words, someone to motivate him when he saw his efforts doom.

And I wondered that today there are so many people out there who just want someone to listen to them, someone to tell them its not a big deal, to say that its going to be okay. Aren’t we human beings many time choking with emotions ? Our almost solitary lifestyles (despite the many social media friends) leaves us short of company at the time of crisis. And then there is the fear of being judged or harming our carefully photo shopped picturesque lifestyle that we want to present to everyone.
I know these fears exist because sometimes I myself am doubtful – whether to share or not. In the end, I have realised that it is much better to open my heart, to involve some people in my ups & downs and give help to others just as readily.

P. S. Do share who are the people in your life who are always willing to listen to you?

Express your love.

It’s easy to take your feelings for granted and to assume that people we care about know how we feel about them. But those we love are quite cognizant of our feelings.

Saying ‘I love you‘ is a gift we should often give our loved ones. Letting people know you love them is an important part of nurturing relationships. Few people tire of hearing such emotions and it can bring a great difference to someone’s life and take your relationship to the next level with that person.

People who find it difficult to express their love verbally should not be afraid of expressing their feelings quite often. It is really important at times to share your feelings with your loved ones and to make them know where they stand in your life and how you feel about them.

P.s. This valentine’s day, don’t assume, just express your feelings to your loved ones and make them feel special.

You are awareness of your thoughts. 

You’re talking to yourself everyday even when you are reading to what i think, you’re having a conversation in your mind. Your perception is everything.  Your universe started in your mother’s body, now it continues in your brain. 

Remember this, you are not yout thoughts,  You are awareness of your thoughts.  How you react to what you think determines your future. You can’t live a positive life having negative reaction to your thoughts. 

What others think of you is their problem or blessing not yours. You need not be concerned about how people perceive you. It says more about them then you. 

You are your best friend or your worst enemy. If you’re telling yourself you’re bad, you are ugly or you can’t do the specific work. Your mind will reinforce this within your body at a cellular level. 

When you tell yourself you can’t you destroy your confidence.  Just tell yourself, I can do it, I will do it, and fight the monster in your life. Learn to love yourself first. Learn to be your best friend and protect your energy to fight your demon.  

You can do it, you will do it.  You are special. You are loved. You are worth it all. Just believe in yourself. I do, your friends do, your family and your loved ones just want to see you happy and succeed. 

P. S. Thankyou for 600 followers. 💜

What makes you happy? 

 Have you ever asked yourself this question? 

For days, I was demotivated, confused, in a state of depression.  I would stay isolated, I talked very less and my daily activities were also decreasing as lethargy was seeping in. Something was always bothering me. 

One day, I decided to talk about it to a stranger as I had the feeling of being judged by my known ones. After listening to my story he asked me 1 single question “What makes you happy?”  I was clueless about the same at that moment. He told me to jot down 1 thing that made me happy every day. 

Initially it was difficult for me, but I realized a few things which did make me happy: Doodling, visiting new places, meeting new people, getting to eat sweets and My NGO work are a few that topped the list. 

After realizing this, I started to spend some time of the day doing these things and my state of mind improved. I am now at peace with myself. 

P.s. How often do you ponder about this question? What is it that gives you immense happiness people? I would love to know in the comments below. 🙂 

The magic of LOVE. 

Ever faced rejection while asking your parents for something? Happens? So what do you do? You still don’t give up right? You beg, you plead, you through all your emotional tantrums would  try to get the thing or work done. 

Love mostly comes to us somewhat like that. Where we want it on any condition.  ‘Do or die:but get it.’ it’s our situation. 

We do every possible thing to get love only to realise we are wrong.  Because if it is meant to happen, it will and so on the other way around if it’s not meant to be it won’t happen. 

And in this process,  we slowly loose the little kid inside us. We become afraid. Shattered, lost and mutilated  we promise ourselves that we’ll never fall into this trap again. 

Little that we know it will all  come back, but in a beautiful and larger than life state.

Never let someone demean you, treat you bad or even hurt you a little, because if these things persist. It’s surely not love. 

Cause love is something that leads you to happiness and growth. It is something that makes you feel  beautiful about yourself and of how lucky you are..

Believe in the magic of love.  ❤️

P. S. Hello my blogger family, let’s start this new year with a fresh feeling and let’s love more.  Do tell me what are your plans for this year? And what you think of love?