There is hope always.:)

Get up, and try your best, that’s all you can do… Just because it’s difficult doesn’t mean it’s not possible.
Just because people say it can’t be done, doesn’t mean you can’t do it. 

Just because your relationship isn’t great right now, doesn’t mean you can’t work and make it better.

 Just because your grandfather is sick right now, doesn’t mean he won’t get better. 

Just because you are alone right now, doesn’t mean you won’t make new friends and meet new people.

Just because you are having a tough time right now, doesn’t mean you won’t have a good future ahead.

Just because you  didn’t do your best, doesn’t mean you can’t try harder and make things work for yourself and improve.

Just because you made a mistake, doesn’t mean you can’t improve in the future and learn from it.

Just because you are having a bad day, doesn’t mean you have a bad life.

Just think deeply for a moment, you have a house, health, family, friends who love you. You can work on your happiness as you work on other things.

Just because it seems like there is no hope, remember as long there is life, there is hope always. 🙂

Beginning of a new year..

And we are at the beginning of a new year, you must’ve made Many resoulutions for yourself in this or the previous year. Did you keep them? Did you change as you had thought? Life is constantly changing, earth is changing. 

One of the questions you can ask youself is how did you spend the last year? Were you happy or were you depressed? Were you stressed? Or you were relaxed and at peace with your exsistence? Happiness is transient, just like time itself. Living life to the moment is the best way to maintain sanity. The more moments you spend of happiness, the better quality of life you live.. 

So, what are you going to do in this year to keep yourself happy? Here are a few simple things you can try- love unconditionally, stop smoking & drinking alchohol, don’t let someone disrespect you, follow your heart, start excersing, eating nutritious food, get involved in activities where you can make some difference in people’s life. 

Everybody is human so you can change things for the better if you want to. Start by today, cause tommorow isn’t promised. There are so many things you can do to keep yourself and others affect positively because that’s how you find happiness.

p.s. I hope you people get rich in happiness, peace, joy, family, laughter, love, wealth and career in this year and years to come.

Keep giving your suggestions people. And tell me some of the answers to the questions mentioned above. Let’s stay connected. 🙂

 

Things to make your friendship last longer. 

Losing friends is an imperative part of growing up. It’s strange how the people we grew up with, ones who’ve been on our side during our best, suddenly become strangers. Not all friendships are meant to last forever, but some friends are for lifetime. Keep them close. Here arw some things you can do to keep you friendship last longer. 

  • Support them. They maybe taking some big decisions of their life, like you and your support could mean the world to them.
  • Don’t judge. Yes, you cannot agree with all the things they say or all the decisions they make. But don’t be judgemental. That’s the last thing they would want from you.
  • Spend time. Take out some time for your friend. Everyone is busy, but it is important to meet frequently and stay in touch and know what’s going on in each other’s lives. 
  • Don’t let misunderstandings build up. It would weaken the great bond that you have with your friend. You may not like confrontation always. But don’t let things pile up. If you have something in your mind, just talk it out and clear it. 
  • Be with them. In your good days and on bad days when nothing is going right with them or you. Face all the hurdles together. Be a support system for each other.
  • Don’t burden them with your personal problems. Yes, you may be having a bad time. But you should not always discuss it with them in each and every conversation that you have. Cause they might already be having their share of problems to deal with. 
  • Accept that friendship changes with time. As everything in life changes as we grow up or with the passage of time. So does our friendship. Our friend will not always be present for us. Sometimes we have to trust our friendships and be okay with them not giving us adequate time and accept their reasons for doing so.  

    Friends are the most important part of our lives. We should try to make our friendship last longer. As friends are the greatest blessings of all.

    Worrying about what other people think? 

    “Life is a game of 3 parts. In the frst part, you wonder what people think about you. In the second part, you don’t care what people think about you. In the third and final part, you realise people were never thinking about you anyway.”  

    Now tell me; how many people do you think of at the end of the day? You think of yourself. Your life. Your dreams. Your family. Your love. You hear the distant train’s signal, and then you are thinking about trains. You think of the new song you heard. The movie you watched.

    Do you think about the girl who wore shorts to a family function? Do you think about the love birds romancing in the public place? Do you think about the boy who asked a weird question in the group disussion? 

    No. You don’t !! You might have remembered some traces of the events that occured that day. But you would definitely forget about these instances by then end of the week.

    This is what happens with other people also. Nobody thinks about other people so much. Nor do they have the time to do so. 

    So, you also stop worrying about what other people might think of you or your actions. And start living life on your terms and conditions. The way you want. And be happy. 

    Occupy your mind with other valuable thoughts and stop worrying about what other people might think. 

    Why me?? 

    When she got rejected for an interview,

    When she failed an examination,

    When nothing would be going the way she wanted..

    She asked herself Why me?? When she started losing all her hope, when she didn’t get the desired results she would always ask herself WHY ME?? WHY AGAIN ME??

    But in the process, she realised that everything happens for a reason. And instead of asking herself the same repeated question, which many of you might ask yourself when faced with a similar situation. She said Yes me!! didn’t get the desired results so I would work harder in future. Yes me will get the things I desire. Yes something good is in store for me… 

    After all it’s all about the way you look at things.

    p.s. Thank you for 1400+ likes and 350+ amazing followers. 🙂 

    How to build a healthy relationship.

    After hearing a lot lately about breakups, divorces, unhealthy fights and bitter arguments between couples. I thought of writing some of my own drawn conclusions on how to keep your relationship healthy with your partner.

    1. Spend alot of time. When you are in a relationship, it becomes very important to spend alot of time together. No matter how busy your schedule is and irrespective of the other aspects you should take out some time for your partner in a  day. If possible visit places, travel together.

    2. Build understanding. It is important. You should talk to your partner about various matters in your life. You both should try to sit back, and understand each other’s perspective and if there comes a difference of opinion you should peacefully try to resolve it.

    3. Confession of feelings. Some may disagree, but I beleive no matter which relation we talk of to keep it alive, we should make little gestures for the person once in a while, and confess our feelings.

    4.  Give space. In every relation we need our space. Right? We don’t want someone to be questioning us about each and everything. We want our space also. To do certain things the way we like. So why not when we are in a relation?  Think about it!!

    5. Be happy and secure. If you yourself are not happy and secure, how do you expect to keep your partner happy in a relation? So, try to keep yourself happy.

    6. Adjustment. Something, which is required at every phase of our lives. We need to learn to make certain adjustments when we are in a relation to keep it going smoothly. Cause, if we don’t agree to adjust in certain situations our relation is bound to get weak with time.

    7. Trust. You should trust your partner’s decisions, and actions taken for himself and for you as well. Trust is very important in a relationship, once it’s lost. It becomes difficult for a relationship to survive.

    There are many things which build a strong relation. Some i mentioned, some you people might have learnt with your own personal experience.

    Something we people of this generation have completely forgotten..

    Whenver a problem arises in a relation, we should not break the relation and leave our partner. Instead, we should try to solve the problem and make the relationship even more stronger.

    EGO: Let it go

    There were two best friends, who were always together. 24 hours of the day they would spend taking to each other.It was impossible to separate them even by their enemies who would be so jealous. 2 people, 1 heartbeat.

    But one day, one of them stopped talking to another one. And kept waiting, wanting his friend to make some effort. Never did he realise his ego was even bigger. And the long time friendship of years came to an end because of their king sized ego.

    We always wait, want the other ones to make some effort for us. Never realising the other one can expect the same from us? Why can’t we give up our  ego and talk to people about the problems which we have with them.  Many a times we sacrifice the relation but are not walling to Let go our ego.

    Once again people, we won’t become smaller in size if we speak, ask questions, make the first effort, Leave the word ‘I’, listen more, acknowledge our mistakes, make some adjustments. Ego- please let it go.:)

    p.s. Keep giving your suggestions and if you wish me to write about something specific. I would love to hear from you people.